MY TEST RESULTS
Well, sorry it took so long to write about this, but I did get my results back last Saturday, and it was "non - reactive". Remember, a counselor can't say "negative" given the nature of HIV and the tests involved. So as of 2 weeks ago Saturday, I had no antibodies to HIV. I have to admit, for some reason - I wasn't as nervous this time around as in the past. I guess, what it boils down to is that I have really cleaned up my act since I've been sober.
I often share about the nite in my therapists office when I finally admitted I had a "problem" with alcohol (I wasn't an alcoholic!), I added in the same breath ".... but I can't imagine a day with out it". It was then that I began my struggle with my sexual addiction.
At the time, I was very deep in that addiction. So much so, that without honestly dealing with it for over a year, it caused me to relapse in my alcolohol recovery program.
Getting back into my recovery program, I made honesty a foundation to my 12 step work. I even did a sexual 4th step. No longer could I afford to live with half truths, unsaid feelings and dangerous situations. Today, I can admit to weeks of not acting out on my sexual addiction - considering I would often act out two or three times a day back then.
We in recovery are often grateful to wake up clear headed with memories of the nite before; waking up the next morning after a major drinking holiday with no hangover; even grateful to be sober when encountering a drunk in public. Today, I am grateful that I can honestly tell you excatly what I was doing for the past 24 hours, with no shame attached to any of my actions or situations. That is a true miracle.
I often share about the nite in my therapists office when I finally admitted I had a "problem" with alcohol (I wasn't an alcoholic!), I added in the same breath ".... but I can't imagine a day with out it". It was then that I began my struggle with my sexual addiction.
At the time, I was very deep in that addiction. So much so, that without honestly dealing with it for over a year, it caused me to relapse in my alcolohol recovery program.
Getting back into my recovery program, I made honesty a foundation to my 12 step work. I even did a sexual 4th step. No longer could I afford to live with half truths, unsaid feelings and dangerous situations. Today, I can admit to weeks of not acting out on my sexual addiction - considering I would often act out two or three times a day back then.
We in recovery are often grateful to wake up clear headed with memories of the nite before; waking up the next morning after a major drinking holiday with no hangover; even grateful to be sober when encountering a drunk in public. Today, I am grateful that I can honestly tell you excatly what I was doing for the past 24 hours, with no shame attached to any of my actions or situations. That is a true miracle.